Passing Down Her Calling

Gerldine Eubanks Borgeson, DIP 鈥68, always knew she wanted to be a nurse. 鈥淚 wrote a paper when I was eight years old about how I was gonna be a nurse when I grew up,鈥 she recalls. She came of age in an era when most women were homemakers, secretaries, teachers, or nurses, but her devotion to nursing was not due to a lack of options 鈥 for Borgeson, nursing was, first and foremost, her passion.
In 1965 at 17 years old, Borgeson鈥檚 calling led her to SMU with the support of financial aid and scholarships. 鈥淢om had four other kids as a single parent, so it was up to me to get my education and to get it financed so that I didn鈥檛 worry her,鈥 she says.
So when Borgeson and her husband could afford it, and later when they created a family trust, they made a commitment to give regularly and generously to SMU and included the school in their end-of-life estate planning. 鈥淚f you want to be a nurse and you have the drive and passion and commitment, it is important that somebody supports you,鈥 she declares.
Aisha Fleming, BSN 鈥25, one of the many recipients of the Gerldine Eubanks Borgeson 鈥68 Scholarship Fund award, also considers nursing a calling. 鈥淢y mom was a nurse, and I was inspired by her,鈥 she reveals. 鈥淚t was a lifelong dream of mine.鈥
Fleming worked for over 20 years as a certified nursing assistant in acute care and as a cardiology technician at Stanford University while raising her two daughters as a single mom. 鈥淚 knew I wanted to be a registered nurse, but I just didn鈥檛 know how and when I could do that,鈥 she says.
When Fleming鈥檚 nephew was tragically killed by gun violence, her drive to become a nurse was reinvigorated. 鈥淛ust watching the nurses and how kindly they cared for him, it made me want to be a nurse even more. But I honestly didn鈥檛 know how I was going to do it while having to provide for my family.鈥
Returning to school in SMU鈥檚 BSN program in 2023 鈥渨as hard, but more manageable鈥 with the help of Borgeson鈥檚 scholarship, she says. 鈥淭he scholarship alleviated the anxiety and pressure of worrying about how I was going to pay for groceries or afford the gas to get to a clinical site.鈥 With gratitude, she adds, 鈥淚 am truly honored and thankful for her generous support.鈥
Fleming echoes a sentiment similar to one Borgeson shared. 鈥淢y time at Samuel Merritt gave me a solid foundation in the nursing field and taught me to be well-rounded in my patient care. It鈥檚 not just about treating the disease and fixing people up 鈥 you have to help them emotionally and physically. Taking care of the sick and people in need, it鈥檚 an important act of service,鈥 Fleming affirms.
Long after her retirement as a nurse, Borgeson still lives by these acts of service every day. She spends time daily with her husband, who is in a memory care facility, and she says she can鈥檛 help but look after him and all of the other residents there. 鈥淥nce a nurse, always a nurse,鈥 she claims, and adds a bit mischievously, 鈥淚 can still run circles around those younger nurses.鈥
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